How to keep a relationship Strong
Keeping a relationship strong makes life beautiful between two persons. A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a Loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes.
When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He asked his wife to cap the bottle and kept in the cupboard as he was getting late from office. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot about the open medicine bottle.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all. That was poisonous medicine for adults to take in small dosages. When the child collapsed, mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was in shock. She was feeling fear how to face her husband.
Husband Behavior:
When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.
The husband just said “I am with you Darling.” The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior.
The Child is dead and the boy can never came back.
There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.
No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. She was in need of consolation and sympathy from her husband. That is what he gave her.
If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. “A journey of a thousand miles Begins with a single step.” Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness and fears because they weakens you and your relationships. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.
Moral of the Story:
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship. Before taking any decision, we need to assess either mistake was intentionally happened from other person or can we compensate the loss ?
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